Thursday, March 31, 2011

Here's How To Get Started...


I am a safe, sane, and consensual player.
This means I will respect your limits and I will not engage in activities that carry an inherent risk of injury in my professional play. With that being said, most activities we engage in, including BDSM, do carry a measure of risk.
I encourage you to examine these risks before you play.
I am always happy to answer your questions or refer you to reputable sources of information.
Please be aware of the following boundaries before contacting me: I do not approach SM from a place of pathology: that is to say, I am not interested in engaging in physically or emotionally damaging activities, inflicting permanent marks, playing without a safeword or otherwise violating the bounds of consent.
I expect anyone who contacts me to share this mindset.

I'm delighted in guiding your first explorations into the magic of BDSM. However, before we meet it is important to me that you have enough knowledge to be able to ask for what you want and express your limits.
Please feel free to read through this blog before you take that first step and contact me.

DOMESTIC DISCIPLINE

Domestic Discipline enthusiasts are a special breed. My entrance into kinky play came by way of an early passion for spanking and role play. Private explorations with organizations like Shadow Lane and spanking circles around the country introduced me to a group of people whose devotion to the proper administration of punishment demonstrated an extraordinary attention to detail and a love of traditional images of strict control and proper correction.

What’s truly kinky about domestic discipline is the eroticization of everyday objects and settings: a hairbrush retrieved from Mother’s purse; a wooden ruler from the teacher’s desk; your Aunt’s heavy wooden spoon; the school nurse’s discipline paddle. Many people are drawn to age play, which offers a distinctly grown-up retreat into the carelessness (and powerlessness) of childhood. Punishable offenses may range from possession of contraband (chewing gum, a pack of Lucky Strikes, an inappropriate magazine) to being caught red-handed in Mother’s panty drawer. Others appreciate the ritual of role play but prefer to remain in their adult selves when receiving discipline. And still others love spanking for the pure, passionate sensation of spanking. With or without role play, an extended visit over the knee can be a magical combination of submissive masochism and deep tissue massage!


I consider BDSM a form of creative self-expression which utilizes fantasy to challenge, exhilarate, arouse, and de-stress. My intention with any scene is to engineer a unique and engaged experience which incorporates the desires of My subjects in a way which is pleasing to Me. I do not need to impress you with histrionic prose concerning My dominance, nor can I tell you how you will feel when you meet Me. I do not believe such things can be foreseen, however, you may expect that I shall handle the gift of your submission with respect and dignity. I expect you to reciprocate.

If you would like to inquire about the possibility of a session: I require that you send a polite and succinct email to:
malaciousboys@gmail.com

Please Note: I require a minimum of 24 hours notice to arrange a session, with 48 hours or more being ideal. I never do same day/last minute sessions with new Submissives unless you have already been screen and have been formally introduced.

When I receive your email inquiry, I will reply within two hours and will include further information about me and my sessions as well as provide you with my standard questionnaire for planning our session together. After I have review your responses to that questionnaire, I will telephone you to introduce myself.

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