Sunday, October 14, 2012

My Limits; Read Before You Contact Me For A Session

Here are My Limits for play and other details-

I will continue to update this blog of details as I see it.
If you have any questions, e-mail them and I will post my rules about it here.
Keep in mind that I cater mostly to men [and women too ;)] into bondage and S&M. I was trained in a traditional house where you had to be at least 30 to be recognised /allowed to have a Mistress title, I am not making that up, that was the old way of doing things.
There were no mi$$tre$$es and raising pigs was not encouraged and looked down on.
I am a Dominatrix. I am not an escort, stripper, or hooker with a whip.
Some people need this. If you are a tycoon in need of a spanking, but everyone you know pisses their pants out of fear of you-I am that Kind of Dominatrix. Your ass will be red.
I am only into BDSM. I have been independent and Pro since 1992.
I have been around long enough to know that Dominant does not mean domineering- it is about trust.   And, I follow the Old way of doing things...so, aren’t you glad that there still some of us left that do..

Session Limits
  • No children or animals
  • I do not exchange bodily fluids with you
  • The Safe word is ‘Safe word’. When you reach your limit, just say it. My sessions are for you,– you decide if it needs to be toned down physically or psychologically. Along with the experience being fun and fulfilling, there are times we all have our weak moments and intense play can bring those out. I do not push your limits unless you request it and specify the intensity of how far ‘beyond your limit’ is ok. This is a Pro-session and I do not let my own enjoyments interfere with what we strive to achieve. You are safe with me and can explore and express without these pressures if this is what you need. Everyone is different and this has always been my policy on the matter.
  • No  Drugs or Alcohol consumption in session. If you use medical Cannabis-And have a prescription- you must wait until AFTER our session to use your medication. Sorry, all rented dungeons I play at prohibit this activity-this is not Asia or Europe. I do not smoke up with you- It is not appropriate.
  • Suspensions of any kind will only be done using the designated equipment in a dungeon.
  • [we could just go to a dungeon and rent it for this purpose] the only exception is if you have a home dungeon [converted playroom in your home, I have seen a few already-and most are as good if not better than a dungeon] and you want to play there.
  • No phones[or pagers unless you are an MD on call], food[unless used for a scene] or beverages [other than water] allowed in session.
  • No trashing or disrespecting the places I take you to play. Even I am considerate enough to use a large tarp for wax-play. 
  • Diabetics should never engage in blood play or most medical activities. Diabetic subs are also discouraged from requesting heavy sessions.
  • Showing up intoxicated disqualifies you from electric, blood and breath play. NO roulette[epinephrine, inhalants and Viagra doses -or any cardio-enhancer taken before activity], no pacemakers, no cig smokers. I do not allow roulette or boosters during this type of play- should we agree to do so. No embellishments during play. You will have to respect my limits for this play if you wish to participate. 
  • No camera or recording devices of any kind. My image/ artistic expressions belong to me. You may not use any of it without signed permission and in most cases, Credit And/or compensation.

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